Focus On the Positive

Life is a b****! But you have to focus on the positive and learn lessons from everything you experience. I have been feeling down and out and feeling alone lately, feeling lost in my own skin, and just full of anxiety over nothing. Although talking with my Dad today put everything into check, he keeps me grounded and reminds me to be thankful for all the little things in life that make each day up. To focus on being yourself and staying true to who you are and what you believe in. I make choices for me, and nobody else. I no longer about trying to please everyone around me. I am focused on getting where I want to be in life and becoming the person I desired to be. Life is for you and nobody else.

This is me, take it or leave it

So I am one of those people who always says what I'm thinking, and most of the time I'm okay with it. But sometimes it gets me into trouble because apparently not everyone wants you to be honest with them. So I have created this blog to be an outlet for me, so that I can still be truthful to myself by expressing how I feel, but doing it in a creative and harmless way. I will try to be as anonymous as possible and keep other people's names out as well to simply protect myself and them. I hope people come to enjoy my brutal honestly, and if you don't, then don't read!

So today's fun story is one that I have relived over and over and over. Most of my friends seem to understand that I am a busy person. I am single and live alone so I don't really have anyone to answer to so I am usually out and about doing the things I enjoy. But then I have friends who have kids and stay at home and they get mad because I don't feel like sitting and doing nothing. And it's the same argument every couple of months! I have a theory that it's probably at the points when they feel trapped in their life that they choose to attack mine. I find it annoying and definitely don't sugar coat my response! What's even more annoying is that I haven't done anything different in the way I live my life, I live it for me and always will! All these people who rag on me have boyfriends or kids or someone to come home to. I don't, therefore, I do what I want when I want to. And you better believe at the end of the day they would choose them over hanging out with me anyways (as they should). I'm just tired of having to defend my choices, I don't have to answer to anyone! If this continues this friendship will be over!!!